Infusing the practical into the romance…

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Couples RLT™ Therapy

Many will tell you that real modalities of transformation include yoga, meditation, solitude, etc. But no one tells you that the most powerful of them all is relationships: especially couples-ship.

I strongly believe that romantic and love partnerships can (and should!) be a powerful source of comfort, affection, strength, and most of all continuous healing and growth. For this to be the case, however, it is essential to cultivate balance between:

  • Commitment vs. authenticity
  • Strength vs. vulnerability
  • Compassion vs. accountability

Whatever the presenting problem is in your couple, recognize that any relationship is constantly flowing between the phases of:

  • Harmony
  • Disharmony
  • Repair

In addition, research has now established that the repair phase involves far more resilience and intimacy building than the harmony phase. With that in mind, I spend a lot of time working on the processes of repair.

The most decisive ingredient, however, will always remain to be: how much investment are you willing to make in your couples-ship?

“ The flower doesn't dream of the bee. It blossoms and the bee comes. ”
Mark Nepo

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